An obedient Indian girl

Some feelings and emotions get buried so deep inside the souls and heart that they might never again come to life...

Being a girl is a very difficult part you need to play in this society. You will be taught regarding your responsibilities, your duties and good behaviour since your childhood. You are expected to be the ever loyal, ever perfect, ever smiling and most of all ever compromising character in your home!! And I bet, no single Indian girl will disagree to this.. And once into a relationship, she's the alarm clock, she's the reminder, she's the one who remembers the so-called "important" days, she's a friend, she's a foe, she's a maid and she's a teacher. In all these process the 'real she' gets lost and that's what is called leaving your self behind to create another one!! She loses her originality and what remains with her forever is her memories of past.

Just a P.S note for parents -  Will be better if you teach your sons to just respect and learn being loyal to his "she" counterpart.That would suffice to her endless duties.

Regards,
An obedient Indian girl

Isolation is the gift

“If you’re going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don’t even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery–isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it. And, you’ll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you’re going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It’s the only good fight there is.”
“The free soul is rare, but you know it when you see it – basically because you feel good, very good, when you are near or with them.”
“People with no morals often considered themselves more free, but mostly they lacked the ability to feel or love.”
“What matters most is how well you walk through the fire.”

-Charles Bukowski

We are the girlies and we love it!!

This is a post which I would like to write just to mention a few points about all the hard working girlies who deserve love and care and lots of amount of respect..

Girls have some peculiar traits and the reason is the girly hormones working on!! They have these habits of putting their family and loved ones above everyone and these..yes they do hurt them..

After staying with all types of girls, meeting women and from my personal experience, I would like to point down certain points here:

They have the habit of waiting endlessly for their boyfriends call... keep worrying about her boyfriends studies...keep praying for her husbands good health.. they will learn and cook good food for her husband.. keep fasting for her brothers promotion.. keep sacrificing to save her dads money.. They follow their moms orders to be that good daughter.. she constantly takes care of her children and makes sure they have the best.. they will hide their sorrows to bring a smile on her loved ones face.. she will perform all her duties loyally and make her in-laws home her own place.. she will secretly keep waiting for her lover to admire her..the whole life she will dedicate to someone or the other at various phases for her life!!

And mind you.. This is not some old fashioned lady I am talking about.. Its a 21st generation hard working lady I described whose day starts 7.00 in the morning and ends at 10.30 nite doing some or the other tasks
and compromising some or the other things

But it's a trait which no men will ever have and so I just hope that these all beauties out there get all the love they deserve!! B strong.. B happy.. B loved forever..

Loads of love!!

Down the memory lane..

Long..Long tym and I am back with something to pen down.. This moment is full of emotions,uncertainties and lot many changes in my life!!

Single to engaged.. Changes at work and yes.. love.. I got the love of my life.. Well, God has really blessed me.. But there are always some unspoken words, some unfulfilled dreams which remain with you forever..

Tomorrow is Holi and as I am writing this post, it takes me down to the lanes of my hometown, Junagadh, where in the early morning I would wake up and find my dad waiting for me to play Holi.. That little pichkari and that fun!!! And then the neighbours, the relatives, friends and masti.. Thats it... Play, Eat and Njoy... God... I so very much miss them all.

So then.. Are my girly days getting over?? Am I about to enter the world full of responsibilities... Will I not have anyone like my Dad to always take care of me... Will I not have my family to pamper me.. This never ending wills n buts always give me butterflies.. But maybe that's how life works.. That's what is called a transformation... transformation from a girl to a lady!!

But yes... new world do have their own good things.. You feel loved when your prince hugs you. You have more reasons to smile..more memories to build on and yes.. being someones special!!

With all these mixed feelings, May this Holi all evils come to an end and we come out as better versions of ourselves...

**Be that girl who never backed down**

Well time is precious and yes in its true aspect I realised it in 2013. The year passed on zuppp...just in a blink of eye... But giving lot many lessons of life.. The real life..

This quick and short post to summarize my 2013 so that down the years when I read this post, I can remember my these learning years and the type of person they have made me!

So, all the months were sort of lessons of different type... The group masti and fun in the first half of 2013 somehow ended into a few bunch of friends and more work related affairs.. The gupshup time in the cafeteria changed to serious work and future discussions.. This is what all call maturity I suppose!!

Some girlfriends got married and lost into their worlds, some friends got their dream jobs and again started their new journey, some came and went...just leaving few memories... again good and bad.. But the party never stops..New friends came in and there was unlimited fun going on at this end.. Trips and discs..Food and fun... Yes.. The year has treated me quite well..

To sum up in last para, apart from the friend and family part..The year gave me a very big lesson on personal front.. Never ever give up..And here I will share what I will firmly believe in the coming years:

Nice lines by Taylor Swift.. dedicated to me

"Be that strong girl that everybody knew would make it to the worst;

Be that fearless girl, the one who would dare to do anything;

Be that independent girl, who didn't need a man;

Be that girl who never backed down"

Love you God, Mom Dad and my life.....

And Everyone who reads this post Be Blessed!!

A great 2014 is waiting for you all....

Nothing lasts forever

Love... Relationships.. Breakups... Nothing lasts forever!!!

A girl who used to die for someone gets along and then starts loving someone else... A couple who spent every single minute with each other marries some altogether different people.. A boy who used all his money on his girlfriend finally settles with a girl whom he met an hour ago... What remains behind is just memories....

This is because these days 'Happy Endings' are limited to Bollywood movies... Real life isn't that lovely bed of roses where you make those forever promises and then live to it!!!

Promises are meant to be broken is the new thing nowadays... People meet, make promises just to break them few days thereafter... Is this commitment part so difficult!!! I wonder.... 

Out of my comfort zone!!!

Everyone gets used to a certain lifestyle.. In this world, the internet and social networking sites have attacked you so much that you hardly realize it until one day you lose all these facilities...and then its like no life!!! Or no.... Then you start living the Real Life!!!

Suddenly you observe the beauty of sky... the soft whispers of the birds, the flowing water, the pretty flowers and mostly you look into yourself!! In this social world somewhere somehow you loose touch with your inner self.. You follow the online world and in this process unfollow your own self. 

So out of my schedule of the online world, I got this opportunity to get a sneak peak of my own life..And this was the time which I spent completely with nature. Meditation at 13000 feet above sea level, running through a freezing river, living on the verge of falling!!! All these fun and excitement can never happen in the tech world..........

Sometimes just sitting idle and enjoying the cold pure breeze can give you that immense happiness and that natural smile that will always be a sweet memoir..