Hold your breath and cut through the darkness..

Today I want to write about something we all pass through but our way of dealing with it differs from situation to situation..   A very cruel yet a very meaningful word: FAILURE..

Yes..its cruel.. the sorrow,the darkness which accompanies it are terrible. You are left alone in this world. You feel deserted ... and  moreover.. People..yes..they make you realise that you are not worth it..dats y you lost.. n some better ones try to console you.. its luck forget it.. but what about the person who is suffering from this trauma.. what is he suppose to do??

Its very easy to say, leave..lets try next time..but no..if you ask me..if you want to succeed in life never ever  forget your failures..They have been happening  to you because they want to teach you something..They ignite your hidden potential... The  tougher life is with you the more successful you are.. success stories do not happen in a day.. they are in the hands of people who have perseverance..who have passion.. who love challenges..and most importantly  who have the strength to accept failures..

I would like to share a story here. There was a village where lived a boy who didn’t have anyone in his family. He was boycotted by his village people as he was supposed to be cursed. Now what was the hope of this boy to survive who had seen just failures from his childhood ???

His dream  was to become the most powerful person in his village. Some people thought he was a fool. People were not ready to talk to him and how can he be the most powerful person?? But he never gave up. He faced a hell lot of hardships. He had to overcome failures to make friends. He had to work hard day and night to study and pass the exams. He had to try to show his capabilities to impress other villagers. And the worst was to face opposition from the head of the village. But there was sumthing inside him, the fire of passion, the fire to be the best. This fire was so deep within him that he was ready for any challenge. And after waiting for years, there was a chance. There came a demon in the village and it was this child who had developed all his strengths through  these years and thus became a  savior for  them. And so this child was declared as THE MOST POWERFUL person in the village. And was respected  and accepted by each and every person.

So what does this suggest. This isn’t a fairy tale with a happy ending. It has a very deep  lesson for all. Never critise people who fail. You never know tomorrow is their turn. they can be your savior. And the most important thing..If you fail, ignite the fire within you.. and never let it extinguish...

Persuit for Happiness

Today as I was sitting idle in the class, I observed a variety of faces.. Some were totally engrossed in their own world, some dozing, some murmuring, and some totally switched off.. Admist all this variety the thoughts which strike me were again something  odd..They were about HAPPINESS.. I was wondering as what real happiness is?? And isn’t it possible to keep this precious little thing with us forever?? Cant we apply some magic and walk with it kept in our pockets.. And from this the switch occurred to another one.. I asked myself a question.. Nupur , when in your life have you felt real genuine happiness?? Oops!! blank.. It took me few seconds to memorise when I was really really happy..  It was when my mind couldn’t stop thinking about my sweetest nana and nani
( Baa & Dadaji).. the love which they showed me, which they shattered on me was so very precious.. unconditional.. That was real one.. that was real happiness. Doing masti at their home, demanding for any recipe at any time..writing on the walls, playing with mud.. All this has gone long long back.. then.. what next?? Next is they left me...

Then was the turn of my mom dad.. Yes for me my Baa Dadaji were before my parents.. My mind turned again to the series of events at my sweet little home. The carefree life with all the facilities, pure khavu, pivu and jalsa!! This was very normal for me at that time.. But then this was a sweet happy happy princess life..Phase over.. Full stop..

Now my journey as a lonely traveller began. I got many many friends but then there was a limit with all.. There comes a time when even if you are surrounded by hundreds of people you feel deserted..lonely.. hopeless.You are at the height of success, you have luxury, you have fame but still you are waiting for some special soul to come and hug you.. be with you, who will  tell you don’t worry sweetie, I am there.. So now you must have understood that I am in a persuit of real happiness!! I am in search of events which will make me happy from within.. And i feel as if I am in heaven dancing with the clouds..filled with lots of real love..

Suddenly there was the announcement of break and all those faces were in no time out of the class. Giggling..trying to come to life..and I was trying to analyse all of those laughing faces..Were these real smiles or humans have learnt the fake one?? Again No answer.. Were they same like me waiting for happiness.. No answer..

Land of Dreams continues..

Let's share the dream of life nw.. Dreams are meant to be fulfilled..everyone has the right to dream. I believe truely on the secret.. The law of attraction!! So after reading this book I thought that till what extent should we dream in our life?? Or derz no limits?? Can we dream of dating ranbir kapoor?? Or can we dream of buying a house in Cape Town?? D law says demand and it's in your hand.. So den let's start the process.. Let's dream big!! Let's go wild... This is the learning here.. We all restrict ourselves to some boundaries.. Like v thk how can I own a house in Cape Town!! Not within my reach.. It's d business of d powerful.. Are y not!?At d end, you r a human being with immense powers.. Just believe in ur dreams.. Who knows 10 years down d line ur name is in d Forbes.. You may be living a king size life.. Owning a lamborgini!! And this is definitely what everyone desires!! We are learning vision, mission etc.. Etc.. But den this has a great value.. Simple n sweet it tells us to ve a vision.. Dream.. N den concentrate all your efforts to acheive dat.. I am on d positive side of this dream world.. N this secret has influenced me..My dad told me once dat what you are in d future is what u always thought of when you were a kid.. Dats true.. I always wanted this life!! So now let's accelerate our thoughts, create our life's vision n mission and den race our car.. Ready, steady, n here it's on!! Begin to create your life...

Mumbai- land of dreams

Today in this land of dreams I want to talk about Mumbai..the city which never sleeps!! Yes truely said this city never sleeps nor does it's spirit.it's an altogether different world out here.. You ve peoeple of all sorts n kind out here. Every single person has his own dream and his own way to fulfill them!! You pass by the road and you see college guys giggling n njoyin their life. You visit any station n a different scene...people v not a second to spent, nor can they afford it!! They will eat a vada pav n survive but won't waste their golden time. Time is valued more than nethg here.. I had always heard stories about the difficulties of surviving in this city and never thought to live here.. But I must say this never sleepin city has it's own attractions!! It has given me the most beautiful gift of my life- the freedom to see dreams, the freedom to live my life with my terms.. To shape my future.. N dats wat attracts thousands of people who leave their such a good comforing life in their hometown n cum here to fulfill their passion!! To b different from the crowd.. N this is possible only in this mayanagri..I beelive that if you ve millions of rupees but you don't ve passion, you don't ve freedom den lifez not worth it. Who says Mumbai is a soft target for terrorists?? Who says people here are weak?? I really respect this amazing city and the spirit of the people which will never die!! Love Mumbai...