**Be that girl who never backed down**

Well time is precious and yes in its true aspect I realised it in 2013. The year passed on zuppp...just in a blink of eye... But giving lot many lessons of life.. The real life..

This quick and short post to summarize my 2013 so that down the years when I read this post, I can remember my these learning years and the type of person they have made me!

So, all the months were sort of lessons of different type... The group masti and fun in the first half of 2013 somehow ended into a few bunch of friends and more work related affairs.. The gupshup time in the cafeteria changed to serious work and future discussions.. This is what all call maturity I suppose!!

Some girlfriends got married and lost into their worlds, some friends got their dream jobs and again started their new journey, some came and went...just leaving few memories... again good and bad.. But the party never stops..New friends came in and there was unlimited fun going on at this end.. Trips and discs..Food and fun... Yes.. The year has treated me quite well..

To sum up in last para, apart from the friend and family part..The year gave me a very big lesson on personal front.. Never ever give up..And here I will share what I will firmly believe in the coming years:

Nice lines by Taylor Swift.. dedicated to me

"Be that strong girl that everybody knew would make it to the worst;

Be that fearless girl, the one who would dare to do anything;

Be that independent girl, who didn't need a man;

Be that girl who never backed down"

Love you God, Mom Dad and my life.....

And Everyone who reads this post Be Blessed!!

A great 2014 is waiting for you all....

Nothing lasts forever

Love... Relationships.. Breakups... Nothing lasts forever!!!

A girl who used to die for someone gets along and then starts loving someone else... A couple who spent every single minute with each other marries some altogether different people.. A boy who used all his money on his girlfriend finally settles with a girl whom he met an hour ago... What remains behind is just memories....

This is because these days 'Happy Endings' are limited to Bollywood movies... Real life isn't that lovely bed of roses where you make those forever promises and then live to it!!!

Promises are meant to be broken is the new thing nowadays... People meet, make promises just to break them few days thereafter... Is this commitment part so difficult!!! I wonder.... 

Out of my comfort zone!!!

Everyone gets used to a certain lifestyle.. In this world, the internet and social networking sites have attacked you so much that you hardly realize it until one day you lose all these facilities...and then its like no life!!! Or no.... Then you start living the Real Life!!!

Suddenly you observe the beauty of sky... the soft whispers of the birds, the flowing water, the pretty flowers and mostly you look into yourself!! In this social world somewhere somehow you loose touch with your inner self.. You follow the online world and in this process unfollow your own self. 

So out of my schedule of the online world, I got this opportunity to get a sneak peak of my own life..And this was the time which I spent completely with nature. Meditation at 13000 feet above sea level, running through a freezing river, living on the verge of falling!!! All these fun and excitement can never happen in the tech world..........

Sometimes just sitting idle and enjoying the cold pure breeze can give you that immense happiness and that natural smile that will always be a sweet memoir..

"June"

Rainy days back again!!! This time with hell lot of mixed emotions... June 2013 will always be a memorable month in my life..This is the 'month of separation'!!!
Sometimes in life you accidentally meet people and then they become an inseparable part of your life.. But then things don't continue the same way forever.. Suddenly you need to free them from your bonds and continue the journey called life all without them.
This month for two various reasons life has taught me this lesson very well. First was a separation for love... and second for career. Both are the most important aspects of life!! Finally its the time to relish the moments spent together, the numerous smiles shared within, the naughty little secrets, the fights and dines... To be honest, writing this sentence creates a live scene of all those precious moments..
But as everyone say 'life continues..and always for better' so may this be the better road for all of us... With little distance let the love between us grow more...

Loads of love....

Waqt bhi thehra hain...

This is that special day when the faith in love and relationships have re-entered my life!!! Yes... And its the after effects of a movie... (Ofcourse a bollywood love story) and then again I am feeling like a teen...all pinky pinky and soft feelings... I need to blame these bollywood people to set such high expectations for normal people like us... But then no gloomy thoughts tonite!! I want to enjoy this positive part of relationships..

After seeing all the relationship failures all around, I have had totally lost faith in these matters..But then this preoccupied notions broke apart just because of one movie... Yes..all of a sudden I was in love with the actor, his dialouges...And most important his way of taking his relation!!

I mean it has become such a 'give and take' world and at this stage where you are ordered from your parents to compromise things in order to select your better half, this ideal love story bought a small faith in me... There may be this type of guys in this generation who will really be happy to let their girlfriends pursue their career. who would be the strenght and motivator for her. Who would love her beyond all earthly things...

A total ideal scenario depicted here but yes this is the Ultimate Happiness..And now I am into it totally..Off for tonite to catch such ideal dreams!!!

Camouflage..

Well I don't think people do reveal their real self to the world outside. Its the fear about what people will talk about them or the goody factor which is appreciated which makes people to wear masks!!! But then is it really necessary.. Isn't it the unreal you.. The you whose not you actually!!!

We all have masks on our face and we tend to carry them so well that its just impossible for some stranger to come and know the real us. Is the smile which we give people the real one? Are the moments we spend with our friends just a way to distract ourselves from that never ending thoughts? Is there something constantly bothering us? Dreams which we have lived are just the way to make us feel good for that few moments? What exactly makes us happy? Any answer....

In these years one word which I have heard from many people is I am practical. Now what does this mean?

Well the literal dictionary meaning is something concerned with actual doing, which is not just a theory or hypothesis. But what when people start using it in their personal relationships.. what exactly do they mean by the words 'I am practical in this relationship' Does it convey the meaning that I don't care what you do.. That even if you wont be in my life I am all fit and fine!!! Is it ever possible for any human??? Well I don't think so...

These people have that mask of practicality because either they have experienced the bitter part of life or they have not loved someone with their complete heart!!!

Because practicals can only happen when you use your brains...Its not your heart whose leading you... Time to take off the mask....

A Directionless Journey!!

What I want out of life, who I really am, where I’d want to be tomorrow, and how I would get there.  To sum up 'Complicated hain boss!!!!'

The stage of life when every single person but u is interested in your marraige.. I never thought life would be a bizarre to drive through at such an age!!! Giving exams was much more easier than this process of getting married!!! My dream world told me that one fine day this will happen and then onwards zupppp.... life changes!! But a big No... not that easy..There is a strenuous round of entrance levels which you need to pass before you reach this highly competent level.

Level One: Shortlist the candidates... Okay somewhat interesting one where you select your potential to be's!!
Level Two: Talks, chats and some meetings... This is when two people try and get to know each other.. For some all the three happens in just a day... Talk chat meet and get engaged!!! while for others it continues for days to months together... Depends on your ability to take risk!! Kisike saath to karni he hain to fir he/she is not bad... Sounds both interesting and complicated...
Things get hot now.... Temperature at the respective homes rises more than 120 degrees Fahrenheit
Level Three: The probability of you reaching at Level 3 with the first person whom you started at Level 1 is 0.000001%..
This is the full and final call. Either say yes and get lost from here or if you are brave enough to start at Level 1 with other candidates say no.. Both the options are equally dangerous!!!


I guess we have become so cerebral and intellectual that somewhere in life we have lost our connections with a word called emotion. There is constantly some or other thought going around.We are afraid of people leaving us, of being hurt.There are signals on our path to lead us but we are so busy calculating the risks and benefits that somewhere we loose into our self and then again back to square one!!! Sometimes what is just needed is to talk. It seems an easy thing but it isn't  There are only a handful of people whom you can REALLY talk to... And at the end, its your life and your decisions and so its you who will make it beautiful.

More TBC

Come..Come..Welcome 2013....

Yipee!!! M so happy on this first day of 2013... No work and all fun was the motto for the day!!! And today after a dance session, I thought lets pen down some 2012 moments so that they don't get lost in this busy life..

20 Feb.2012 was the day when I just entered the Corporate World... And that was also the start of a new beginning in this city of Bangalore. All away from the comfort zone..But then luckily God has always been with me and here too He was with me!! All the days here have been lots of learning along with ofcourse the weekends masti and yes... shopping and now dance too...

2012 also had the special couple (My Mom Dad) celebrating 25 years of their togetherness.It was really a special month and year for all. Love was in the air in its true sense that month!!! They have always inspired me and I just wish them tons and tons of more lovable moments in their life.. Their love will always deepen with time...

Well and how can I forget my First Car!!!! Yes... I got my own car this year... WOW.. Life has been always kind to me and this was one more example.. The car became one of our family member in Bangalore..And like I have had with Activa, this small creature has also given me loads of memorable moments with different people... Sometimes a need, Sometimes fun it has definitely added sweetness in my life.. Thank you pappa for this....

What else!!!! Well ya my dance classes... Learning new things have always been in my list and 2012 has been a beginning for such new learnings!!In addition to dance its cooking also which I have learnt now.. yes I had never thought I would love cooking one day in my life... Second is the driving on the super messy roads here.. Skills  are definitely required to reach home safely...

And what am I expecting from 2013 now!!! Next year at this time there will definitely be lots of things to add on.Lots of new experiences.. Lots of memories..And again lots of Happiness... With this I bid a warm adieu to 2012 and welcome 2013 with totality....