Well I don't think people do reveal their real self to the world outside. Its the fear about what people will talk about them or the goody factor which is appreciated which makes people to wear masks!!! But then is it really necessary.. Isn't it the unreal you.. The you whose not you actually!!!
We all have masks on our face and we tend to carry them so well that its just impossible for some stranger to come and know the real us. Is the smile which we give people the real one? Are the moments we spend with our friends just a way to distract ourselves from that never ending thoughts? Is there something constantly bothering us? Dreams which we have lived are just the way to make us feel good for that few moments? What exactly makes us happy? Any answer....
In these years one word which I have heard from many people is I am practical. Now what does this mean?
Well the literal dictionary meaning is something concerned with actual doing, which is not just a theory or hypothesis. But what when people start using it in their personal relationships.. what exactly do they mean by the words 'I am practical in this relationship' Does it convey the meaning that I don't care what you do.. That even if you wont be in my life I am all fit and fine!!! Is it ever possible for any human??? Well I don't think so...
These people have that mask of practicality because either they have experienced the bitter part of life or they have not loved someone with their complete heart!!!
Because practicals can only happen when you use your brains...Its not your heart whose leading you... Time to take off the mask....
Dis is life my dear Nupur....No one wants to wear dis mask but dey have too....:)
ReplyDeleteSo stop thinking..Njoy each and evry moment...
After all !! Wats life ???
Yep!!! I do know some tyms masks r necessary.. :) Agreed!!! What's life..
DeleteFirst of all I love you! :)
ReplyDeletealso nice thought.Great! well, I personally believe the masks are important if you have something to hide. I think the world rewards honesty, you must be present at the right place at the right time.
well, of course 1 thing I would like to tell you which I have learnt REALLY hard way - it doesn't matter if you have it in you or not, its important that you show it that you have it. if you cant make it , just fake it. at least it gives you the initial push. (this relates strictly to professional life).
Personal life. sigh! I am too messed up from inside to comment! :(
I love you too babes!! When the masks get replaced by the original you in personal life..life can become a disaster!! So ya never do that to the ones you are afraid to loose...
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